On Memorial Day, a heartfelt tribute to Army Specialist Matthew E. Baylis was unveiled at Norman DeMott Park in Oakdale. This ceremony commemorated Baylis’s sacrifice during the Iraq War, drawing a community together to honor his memory.
The Life of Matthew E. Baylis
Matthew Baylis, who tragically passed away on May 31, 2007—just ten days after turning 20—was engaged in a mission in Baghdad when his platoon came under enemy fire. A young man deeply motivated by his experiences, particularly the events of September 11, 2001, Baylis enlisted in the Army during his senior year at Connetquot High School. After completing his basic training at Fort Carson, Colorado, he was deployed with the 2nd Brigade, 2nd Battalion, 12th Infantry Regiment.
Almost two decades later, around 50 community members gathered at the park to remember Baylis during a dedication ceremony. The newly installed memorial, a sturdy boulder adorned with a bronze plaque featuring his name, stands prominently near Main Street, overlooking the Long Island Rail Road station. The Knights of Columbus facilitated the event, reminding everyone present of the heavy sacrifices made by men and women in uniform.
A Moving Dedication Ceremony
Family and friends shared poignant memories at the ceremony, highlighting the impact Baylis had on those around him. His father, Richard Baylis, who traveled from North Carolina to honor his son, expressed overwhelming gratitude to have his son’s legacy remembered within the community he cherished. “We want his name to endure positively,” he remarked, reflecting the family’s desire to keep Matthew’s spirit alive.
Matthew’s mother, Laurie, passed away two years ago, leaving behind cherished memories of her son. His godmother, Susan Lyons, conveyed the life-giving energy that Matthew brought to all who knew him. With bright orange begonias planted around the memorial—his mother’s favorite flower—a vibrant tribute was ensured. “He was a burst of light wherever he went,” Lyons remarked fondly.
A Strong Community Response
The dedication was also marked by the collective efforts of local organizations. Fricke Memorials and 9 Brothers Building Supply contributed the memorial piece, while various private donations funded the installation and landscaping efforts. Raymond Meyer, a volunteer from the local Knights of Columbus, emphasized Baylis’s status as a “hometown hero,” and mentioned that the organization was proud to support the creation of the memorial and the scholarship fund established in his name.
Attendees, including Tim Scherer, whose son also lost his life in Iraq, highlighted the importance of keeping the memories of these young heroes alive. By continuously speaking their names, they believe those who have fallen remain present in communal memory. “If you never stop saying their names, they’re still here with us,” Scherer noted poignantly.
The unveiling of the memorial serves as a reminder of the sacrifices made by individuals like Matthew Baylis and the lasting impact they have on their families and communities. His memory, now immortalized in Oakdale, will continue to resonate with future generations.